Having a light on the washer makes the whole thing relatively easy.
This allows you to use the approach I used on the toaster oven and that I've used with washers and dryers before.
You can use a CdS photocell (from Radio Shack,
here). The resistance of this device changes with the amount of light striking it. You can build a simple voltage divider using one of these and a resistor - i.e., you can treat this like a variable resistor (potentiometer). You will get a variable voltage which can be used as an input signal to your Ocelot/SECU16. Just tape the photocell over the lamp.
You can test this easily using a multimeter. Stick the photocell on top of the lamp. Measure the resistance with the lamp on and off. You should see a significant difference. You may need to block ambient light to avoid confusing the Ocelot. It all depends on how much the ambient light affects the resistance. You can determine this by trial and error.
Often, the resistance varies enough to allow this to be used as a digital input - the voltage swing is large enough to go above and below the digital cutoff. Otherwise, you can use it as an analog signal.
I've done both. For my toaster, I used a quad comparator (LM339) to compare the voltage with a reference voltage and output a digital signal. For monitoring the washer and drier, I treated it as a digital signal (by the way, the washer/dryer sensor was connected to a wireless doorbell to transmit the status).
If you measure the light on and light off resistances, I'm sure people here can help with the appropriate values to build the voltage divider (if necessary). For all I know, you can connect it directly to the SECU16 - I'm sure Guy can chime in here. If you need to build the divider, you're all set since you recently purchased an assortment of resistors.
By the way, the resistances of these inexpensive CdS photocells can vary quite a bit from one to the other. It's not too unusual to need to use different resistor values when building a voltage divider if you change photocells. For a simple on/off result, you probably don't need to worry about it too much.