So i've been making good progress replacing existing switches with UPB ones (mostly the HAI 600w dimmable). But when it comes to the 3-way switches (mostly Lutron Maestro), the existing wiring confuses me a bit.
The diagrams below show the original wiring ("before") and my various attempts. I've attempted to compare the wiring I've seen w/ various diagrams I've found for normal 3-way switch wiring. Unfortunately, this doesn't seem to match any diagram I've found, so I've had to resort to figuring this out on my own (never a good thing).
The recessed lights (load) are wired between the two switches. I don't have easy access to the wiring at each can light so i can't tell exactly how they're wired, so I've been reduced to inferring based on trial-and-error.
I'd like to convert the 3-way switch setups to a 2-way switch and use the other j-box for a 6 or 8 button keypad. Failing that, I'd like to make them functional 3-way switches using the HAI 600w switch and a remote switch.
Here's a sketch of the existing 3-way wiring ("Before").

Here's a (successful) conversion to a 2-way switch. In one case, I was able to pull the line, neutral, and ground wires from something else occupying the same J-box, so I powered the keypad from that.

Unfortunately, some of the 3-way switch locations are single-gang J-boxes with no (unswitched) line/neutral/ground wires on the far side so the above configuration would have required me to forego putting any keypad on the far end.
I hoped to rewire to put a 2-way switch at the far end, so I could use the line/neutral/ground wires at the near end to power a keypad. Given that the working configuration shown above required me to wire nut the black and white wires at the remote end, I inferred that the white wire at the remote end actually carried power to the lights rather than neutral. Thus I hoped I could wire as shown below but this simply didn't work (no diagnostic lights shown on the switch, no breaker tripped, etc).

When this didn't work, I decided to wire up the HAI master and remote switches and leave it as a UPB-capable 3-way switch but that didn't work either (no diagnostic lights shown on the switch, no breaker tripped, etc). I wired as shown below:

I'm now thinking about wiring the HAI UPB switches as the original Lutron Maestro switches were wired, but since I couldn't make any sense of how those were wired (appear to be different from what the Lutron Maestro wiring diagrams depict), I was reluctant to make this change without asking the experts here for guidance.
So..
1. Are there other options I missed which may allow me to get a 2-way switch wired in on the far end (without having to run romex from another J-box)?
2. Will anything "bad" (broken UPB switches, fire, etc) happen if I try wiring the HAI master and remote switches as the Lutron Maestro switches were originally?
Thanks!
-js
The diagrams below show the original wiring ("before") and my various attempts. I've attempted to compare the wiring I've seen w/ various diagrams I've found for normal 3-way switch wiring. Unfortunately, this doesn't seem to match any diagram I've found, so I've had to resort to figuring this out on my own (never a good thing).
The recessed lights (load) are wired between the two switches. I don't have easy access to the wiring at each can light so i can't tell exactly how they're wired, so I've been reduced to inferring based on trial-and-error.
I'd like to convert the 3-way switch setups to a 2-way switch and use the other j-box for a 6 or 8 button keypad. Failing that, I'd like to make them functional 3-way switches using the HAI 600w switch and a remote switch.
Here's a sketch of the existing 3-way wiring ("Before").

Here's a (successful) conversion to a 2-way switch. In one case, I was able to pull the line, neutral, and ground wires from something else occupying the same J-box, so I powered the keypad from that.

Unfortunately, some of the 3-way switch locations are single-gang J-boxes with no (unswitched) line/neutral/ground wires on the far side so the above configuration would have required me to forego putting any keypad on the far end.
I hoped to rewire to put a 2-way switch at the far end, so I could use the line/neutral/ground wires at the near end to power a keypad. Given that the working configuration shown above required me to wire nut the black and white wires at the remote end, I inferred that the white wire at the remote end actually carried power to the lights rather than neutral. Thus I hoped I could wire as shown below but this simply didn't work (no diagnostic lights shown on the switch, no breaker tripped, etc).

When this didn't work, I decided to wire up the HAI master and remote switches and leave it as a UPB-capable 3-way switch but that didn't work either (no diagnostic lights shown on the switch, no breaker tripped, etc). I wired as shown below:

I'm now thinking about wiring the HAI UPB switches as the original Lutron Maestro switches were wired, but since I couldn't make any sense of how those were wired (appear to be different from what the Lutron Maestro wiring diagrams depict), I was reluctant to make this change without asking the experts here for guidance.
So..
1. Are there other options I missed which may allow me to get a 2-way switch wired in on the far end (without having to run romex from another J-box)?
2. Will anything "bad" (broken UPB switches, fire, etc) happen if I try wiring the HAI master and remote switches as the Lutron Maestro switches were originally?
Thanks!
-js