If I'm at a game and everyone takes their hat off, I'll follow suit. Not because I'm a follower but because I respect their following and beliefs, regardless of my own as long as they're not in direct conflict with my beliefs. That said - if I didn't believe in the Pledge of Allegiance or something along those lines, I wouldn't feel bad about not participating (I wouldn't make a scene - I'd stand with the rest but not recite it - but not disrespect it) - That seems fair. Regardless of my feelings on religion, if our country was bourne on the premise of religion and "In God We Trust" was important to our founding fathers, my own feelings aren't that relevant. It's what this country was based on.
With all that, again - regardless of my personal beliefs, I do think anyone who'd sue a state or church or school over an anthem or a pledge should be exiled to some 3rd world country - where rights don't exist. If religion is being forced down your throat and you don't agree, then you're right to protest - but to protest against others who practice their religion in your presence while accepting your differences - that just pisses me off (if you protest that the pledge of allegiance is read, even if they accept you sitting out - you're the problem, not them). People seriously need something better to do with their lives.
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Here's the thing I'd ask you to consider: How often do you find yourself in the minority position? For me, i'm a different race (Indian), my parents religion (Hindu'ism), and several other areas that aren't relevant.
Throughout my life, I've *constantly* find myself in the minority position.
- When I was in the Boy Scouts, we said a prayer before each meeting.
- When I was on assignment in Chicago, I had to basically haul ass out of several bars in the nice parts of town as I was hitting on blonde girls and the good old boys didn't like that
- Before 9/11, a good buddy of mine is Muslim, and he used to pray in the stairwell at work so as to be out of sight and not make people uncomfortable. I won't re-iterate what my bosses said in front of me about that, and they were the SVPs at a major financial institution.
- Before 9/11, my wife wore a traditional headscarf during her bachelorette party, and was taunted by many guys at the bar they were at. (Fortunately my friends were the bartenders & waiters, so they made sure she was safe)
- After 9/11, well let's just say it was all bad, and we live in one of the most diverse cities in the nation. My wife, who was pregnant at the time, was being yelled at on the street and people actively moved away from her on BART.
- Many many other examples.
Do I have an issue with you practicing your religion in front of me? Not the right question.
You have an issue with my existing, or my friends & relatives practicing their religion in front of you. Maybe not you personally, but thousands and millions of you do. BTW, my company has an office in El Dorado Hills (20 mins east of Sacramento). That is true to this day. Well, maybe the Democrats among you don't, but god damn the redneck republican boys in those bars & restaurants certainly do.
I don't seem to have the same privileges as you, evidenced by the experiences I still have every day. Anyone who doesn't accept that this is still the truth in 2009 is intentionally blind. So you'll forgive me if I get PISSED FUCKING OFF when people insist on shoving "God" in my face in public places. And sorry, Todd, that means the Pledge, God Bless America, and "In God We Trust" on our money.
I say again, if you really believe in the Constitution, and believe in Freedom of Religion as the authors intended it to be, keep religion as the personal intense relationship with your god that it should be. There is NO UPSIDE to referencing god in public, and as you can see from this thread, there's a massive downside.