Accident

[electron]

Ok guys, I finally got a hold of him by going on a dialing rampage. Both will be recovering fine, his son will hopefully be released in the next few days , but will need physical therapy and such. His wife was doing much worse but is getting better now and should eventually recover 100%. She is suffering from short term memory loss, blurry vision and other related issues. He hasn't been home at all, and hasn't really slept, he sounded very exhausted.

He is hoping to take his son home tonight, and his wife will be moved to a different facility soon, so I don't have an address yet (eventho he was at the Hospital I got checked out, but for some reason the names didn't show up on my list). He might be home tonight, he said he would check his email and this thread, time and conditions permittion, but I told him not to worry about us right now, just wanted him to know we are there if he needs ANYTHING. He couldn't say much more as he was in the room with his kid, and I didn't want to tie up the line, but at least we have an update now.

 

[AutomatedOutlet]

Thanks for the update. Although it sounds like there will be considerable recovery time, the important thing is that it looks like they will both be OK. That sure is good news.

E, I have their home address. Do you think it would be OK to send something there?

 

[electron]

I was going to do the same thing, but I am not sure when and how long he will be at home. He will try to post here or respond to some emails when he does get home, so it's totally up to you.

 

[JohnBullard]

Even though the accident was tragic, and the recovery may be long, at least this bit of news is encouraging.

BSR, my friend, you know how we all feel about you, and wish the very best for your family.

BSR, take care of yourself also!

 

[theAberdeenKid]

Its always something like this that puts things in the proper perspective.....luckily his family will be able to come home.

BSR--I am happy this seems to have a happy ending.

 

[BraveSirRobbin]

My Dear Friends:

My wife and five year old son were involved in a terrible traffic accident on Monday, October 4th. The accident left my wife unconscious and my son conscious, but in very critical condition. Both were taken to a local trauma hospital where my wife regained consciousness, but had a very serious concussion. My son now had to be placed on breathing assistance and had a skull fracture along with a serious concussion as well.

When I arrived at the hospital my wife was only able to blink at me at random and my son, well that sight was too tragic to write about. Just let me say there were over a dozen different monitors and tubes on and in him and he was now unconscious.

They had cat-scans that day and I had to wait another full day (for a second cat-scan comparison) to see if emergency surgery would be needed to keep their brains from swelling. Luckily the second cat-scan showed no additional swelling, so at least surgery wouldn’t be needed.

Well, my son finally regained consciousness and went off of breathing assistance after three days and finally spoke his first words to Dad. My wife just recently started to regain her composure, but her short term memory is still seriously lacking and she is also having problems with her vision in one eye. Also, both are unable to walk without assistance.

The good news is that both should make a full recovery after weeks of therapy according to all the experts and doctors who saw them. My son is now home and my wife will be transferred to an in-house therapy hospital tomorrow.

Sorry for not posting any more news. I Emailed electron a brief statement of this accident and meant to get back to him, but I remained at the hospital during the nights going between both bedsides, especially during their intensive care times.

There is nothing worse than going between two intensive care bedsides of your dear family members, wondering if anything would ever get back to normal and if they would recover. It felt like I was living in a nightmare. Also I know I am lacking a lot of detail and may not be making much sense, but I have only had two or three hours of sleep each night for a week. Electron contacted me and told me of all of your concern, so I wanted to write to you as soon as I could.

I am very touched by all this show of support and concern by members here and am happy to report this guarded optimism of my wife and son!

I would also like to tell everyone to hug your family members and tell them how much you love them, and cherish them very deeply!

Going through something like this will not leave you untouched. I don’t know how all of this will affect us, but am very much looking forward to having the family back under one roof again.

I don’t know exactly what in-house therapy place my wife will get transferred to tomorrow (insurance hassles and all), but will let electron know once that happens.

Again, I thank you all very much and am very deeply touched by all of your concern. I will try to keep all of you updated as well.

Sincerely,

Morgan

 

[harleydude]

Great news!!!

Glad to hear that things are starting to move in a more positive direction for you and your family. We will keep you all in our prayers as you move through the recorvery process.

Rick

 

[electron]

Hang in there Morgan, just let us know if you need anything, and thanks for the update!!

 

[Rupp]

I justed hugged my family and man hug yours many times. Events such as this put it all in perspective. Get some rest and take care of your family. Your extended family is here if you need anything.

 

[rodriguez24]

This is the best news one could get considering the circumstances. Good luck. I will continue to pray for your family. I def. will hug EVERYONE when I get home from work.

 

[Guy Lavoie]

It sure is nice to get news from BSR himself. It looks like the worse (in terms of uncertainty) is over and that a long trek of small victories lies ahead. Hang in there, and keep us up to date.

 

[zack]

It's nice to hear that things are turning to the upside. Again, my best wishes to you and your family, and hope for a full, speedy recovery. Rest assure, if you need someone to talk to or anything else at all, don't hesitate to ask.

 

[unrealii]

Glad to hear things are looking up. I hope everything works out.

 

[AutomatedOutlet]

Hang in there Morgan and don't worry about us here. It's nice to hear an update because we all care but we all recognize what your priorities certainly are.

Best wishes for a speedy recovery,

Martin

 

[jlehnert]

Thank goodness. Here's hoping that things are over the hump and BSR and family will have smoother sailing ahead.