I haven't tried any GE outlets yet. I have a giant box of GE z-wave devices (including some outlets!) in my garage that I just haven't gotten around to installing yet. I'm sure they would work the same way, but since you are interested I'll try to stick one in the wall sometime this week. I am a little confused about your post because you said "I thought that type of feedback required association with a controller", and the vera is a z-wave controller?
I'm quite happy with my Vera so far. It seems well designed and does what it promises. Simonmason, the z-wave sale at radio shack prompted my entry into HA (that and I'm a new first time home owner with disposable income and some free time finally after 7 years of grad school!). No complaints about any of my z-wave equipment. I think it is well designed and much more reliable than x10. I would strongly recommend getting a $10 GE lcd remote at radio shack if you can - I use it as a secondary controller to the Vera and add devices without unplugging or rebooting the Vera. That probably works with homeseer too.
However, despite being very happy with the Vera I plan on extending it with some a custom perl HA program running on a separate computer. The $2.50 ds10a door/window sensors, $6-8 ms16a/ms10a motion sensors, and dirt cheap remotes from x10 are too tempting! The Vera is pretty extendable internally with Luup (Lua based) code, but it is really easy to control externally as well. The best way seems to be polling with json and then using http requests to command/control. I'll probably use the Vera standalone when I'm not at home to save on power. Also, the remote access to Vera works great - I've logged on several times from work to unlock my house and to see what is going on on my ip cameras.
-Rick