I don't lose control of my lights. I can operate them from the switch on the wall, my cell phone, a wireless keypad, a PC app, or MS dependant on time of day and what else is happening in the room.
You have to be a little more creative and think if you want things to work in your style. Put the bulb in a socket without a switch, or a taped up switch, and control it from another switch or location more convenient. I run a floor lamp, six sets of ceiling pot lights, and a dining room chandelier from one Decora style wall switch. They all have their own switches but only get touched when that specific area needs more illumination or needs to be darker there.
That's what HA controllers like ISY can do. Unfortunately the bulb is ZigBee so a bridge will need to active 24/7 and there will probably be no feedback of current status. I am not familiar with the ZigBee protocol.