When you say "no current detected on the neutral", how did you test for that? You need to use a multimeter with a clamp to test for current. Putting a multimeter to it looking for voltage will read zero even if it is carrying voltage and possibly current because the other leg of the multimeter will be on a wire that is common to that neutral.
I didn't test for "current" in the true sense (i.e multi-meter or inductive clamp), but rather using a no contact voltage sensor. I do have an inductive clamp that I could use to easily test for current if I actually need a value. What I did instead was put a load on each circuit and used the no contact voltage sensor to test for a voltage "current"
Would it be a huge deal to properly wire those switches.
I would feel better for you. Is there unfinished attic or basement above/below the walls with those gangs? Even if you have to tear out a little drywall here or there, patching is not that hard.
In all honesty .... yes. Most of the wiring is now buried inside of 12" or more of foam insulation in some places, and pretty much all the walls that contain the problem boxes are also foamed. I wish it was as simple as just cutting out a little dry wall, but it's not. I would have to cut out a lot of brand new dry wall (dens armor plus), rip out my foam insulation, then repair everything. We are probably talking easily $3000-5000+ just to get the boxes properly wiring for UPB 3-way switching and to fix some of the other problems with wiring I have found (4 function bath fan with wiring for only 2 functions), not to mention a mess of my personal time to do the things that aren't contracted out.
If the simply automated switches work like Insteon, you can bring in a hot/common/ground and run the swich off a completely different circuit.
I'm not familiar with how Insteon works, but it sounds like a virtual switch. You can set up a virtual switch using a US2-40, like the left switch in my picture. This switch does not control a load and is not wiring in any way to the master switch that does control the load. It however can be programmed to control any UPB controlled load in the house, so it could be setup as a virtual 3-way switch, however I am uncertain if LED status will work.
I thought it was code that common's follow along everywhere. I just built a house and made no special requests and every single box that I have opened (and I have opened a lot of them) has a common regardless of whether it is the primary or slave box on a multiway switch setup.
The problem isn't the lack of a common, but rather having an available common on the same circuit.