I like the Snapstream FireFly myself, ~$50, RF based hard button remote. One of the things I like about it is the ease of mapping it to match the IR remotes that come with the SD extenders. These RF based remotes have 16 IDs so you can have quite a few and the system can identify them and changing the channel in the bedroom will not change the channel in the living room, unless you want it to.
With PC remotes though the bigger issue is which remote software you choose to run, if you use EventGhost or Girder you can make any IR remote work very well.
You can actually do the PC thing in contrast to both of your concerns. A laptop with a busted display won't bring much on the used market but is perfect to mount behind an LCD/Plasma. Also many more small form factor PCs are popping up, a recent Intel model only being $65 with integrated CPU. I would assume it won't be long before a decent PC solution can be had for $200 right now they are about $350-450.
With PC remotes though the bigger issue is which remote software you choose to run, if you use EventGhost or Girder you can make any IR remote work very well.
You can actually do the PC thing in contrast to both of your concerns. A laptop with a busted display won't bring much on the used market but is perfect to mount behind an LCD/Plasma. Also many more small form factor PCs are popping up, a recent Intel model only being $65 with integrated CPU. I would assume it won't be long before a decent PC solution can be had for $200 right now they are about $350-450.