Here's how everything turned out. For now, I'm running two cat 6 cables. I think this should future proof things as HDBaseT is coming down in price. The Xbox 360 is the video/PVR/Live TV source for now.
What I used:
3 gang arlington recessed mount box:
http://www.amazon.co...31498171&sr=8-3
Leviton surge protecting outlet:
http://www.amazon.co...31498218&sr=1-3
Decora 6 snap-in adapter for Cat 6 snap-ins:
http://www.amazon.co...31498274&sr=1-7
Note: I also used a Leviton Decora outlet daisy chained on the "load" terminals of the surge protector, giving my 4 outlets with surge protection.
Wifi to IR Global Cache controller:
http://www.amazon.co...31498654&sr=8-2
Kinect TV mount: http://www.amazon.com/Kinect-TV-Mount-Clip-Xbox-360/dp/B004XV6ST4/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1331499245&sr=8-3
Note: I recommend picking up one of the PDP mount clones for under $5 although the real PDP mount is $19 at BestBuy.
And of course the slim xbox 360 wall mount:
http://www.amazon.co...31498313&sr=8-3 This is controlled by Premise and has two blinkies: one on the TV and one on the 360.
PS: Don't order Leviton stuff from Amazon, they are way over priced. I just linked to them since they never seem to remove or change product links...