We do this alot with NX panels. We use one of the programmable outputs on the NX board to trigger an Elk relay which in turn triggers the reversing module. Program the output to go to neg. when triggered, by a fire zone, non-latching and silence on code entry. We use the Elk relay because the NX output is to weak to hold the coil on the rev. relay. There is a wiring diagram that describes the use of an external trigger but it doesn't show the Elk relay in the mix. What reversing relay are you using? We use System Sensor RMM and there is a jumper that needs to be set as well. Good luck.
CDC