Ok I figured out a few things. Button 1,2,3,4 have 2 functions each (I think) at least 3 and 4 do. One single press for 3 gives info about the arming state while holding it down is customizable. I am now able to turn on the lights with all 3 keyfobs. I think the problem with the elk keyfobs was that I was still connected with RP. seems once I disconnected, all keyfobs worked.