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Is there an up to date thread describing where to start and what the options are with home automation in 2016?
The forum is chock full of information relating to options available with home automation today.
Many Cocoontech automation users here utilize both old and new, hardware (firmware) and software.
There is no single thread rather many threads discussing just about every option available relating to home automation.
I am legacy (old automator) somewhat as I remote controlled my home in the late 1990's / early 2000's with then Palm based / Microsoft based smart phones that used slow GPRS (globally). I had fun with it back then. Now it doesn't entertain me much as I am not tethered to my cell phone; but that is me. Enjoyed cooking up the right tweaked OS for my cell phones.
Personally enjoy tinkering with home automation and have the following that I use today...
1 - Homeseer software running today on Ubuntu 14.04 64 bit (lamp server) plus utilizing MS VM's for things like MS SAPI. Been using HS since 1998. Digi this or that using 16 serial and 7 USB pieces of hardware. Talks X10, UPB, Insteon, Z-Wave today. All my in wall switches are UPB. Homeseer tablet top touchscreens are running embedded windows, MS SAPI. Another HS box running on a RPi2. Homeseer touch screen designer lets you design remote consoles in Wintel, Linux, Android or iOS. It has evolved much over the years with the advent of smart cellular phones. I personally was in to that home wired touchscreen console thing. One of the first wireless automation tablets I used / played with was a Microsoft CE based device called the Epod way back when. I remember always learning stuff from a web site called linux hacker dot com. Later installed a Kodak touchscreen kiosk computer in to one wall.
2 - Zone Minder (many years now) - One primary and one test box.
3 - MythTV (many years now) - Logitech Media server combo - Also a VDO server - All LCD TVs using KODI STB's today running KodiBuntu which is my preference for KODI. (HD Homerun boxes, satellite card in MythTV....rebroadcast stuff internally). There is a PlayOnTV and Plex box in the mix there. Also played with MS Media center and remotes way back when. I do not really watch much regular TV these days and prefer movies only.
4 - Leviton Omni Pro 2 combination security and automation panel talking to X10, ZWave, Zigbee and UPB . Omnitouch screens. Base security stuff is all wired.
5 - OmniStat 2 thermostat serially connected to OmniPro panel which can be remote controlled from panel or automation software. Personally a thermostat is a thermostat. I do not play with it as it just works.
6 - Audio - Russound zoned connected to Omnipro panel and software (using a serial server).
7 - Text to speech / VR primarily lives in the Microsoft world and recently added a Kinect to the mix. Tinker with the Amazon Echo and that too has been integrated in to the mix. Another mix is using the Kinect for SAPI and Alexa applications.
8 - phones at home are copper legacy, VOIP and cellular.
Here try to not put my automation dependencies on wireless, internet, tablets, internet hubs or smart phones even though tinker with it all. I am selfish with the internet taking what I want from it mostly.
Mixing both hardware and software let's you try everything. There is no perfect lighting automation protocol. That said today my X10 works fine using Jeff Volp's X10 wares, UPB in wall switches, ZWave and Zigbee stuff. Try it all and see what you are most comfortable with.
Ask away relating to automation and you will get answers here with an intense fervor from many Cocoontech'ers of just about any type new or old automaton utilized today.
Really though what is automation today in 2016?
There is no unique or singular one methodology that ties all of this together. Software (stuff like OpenHab) will let you do the most where as firmware / hardware can be stifling; well that too relates to your perceiving what exactly is automation.
I personally do not know for sure and hoping sometime in the future it's just an AI entity that lives in my home that I only pay attention to when need be.
Much depends on your knowledge base / comfort relating to the the use of hardware, electricity, software (whatever OS, whatever programming).
Recently I have been tinkering with the Home Automation Wiki located here ==>
Home Automation Wiki
It is a live document.
I am in to history such that while I like all of the new stuff; also like the historicals of how we got to where we are at today in 2016.
While we keep moving forward with all of this new automation stuff; I see too we are regressing somewhat (guess that is just human nature).
Whatever you decide on; remember too that you are looking to automate and really you do not want your automation to automate you as it becomes somewhat of a paradox when that occurs. (and it does).