Looks like Insteon is the way to go. I did a bit more testing and still received .1V of noise even with all the lights in the basement of the Church on.
//Cliffnotes for those who don't like reading.

I installted the RF lincs and my lamp and controller were able to communicate across the room. It didn't work before because they were on seperate phases.
//End Cliffnotes.
I then connected a ApplianceLinc to one end of the room, and a RF-Linc in a nearby outlet. I placed my other RF-Linc in another outlet accross the room and linked the two together. I then plugged in my controller was able to control the light at the other end of the room with a slight delay (obvious the RF Lincs were being used).
Upon further investigation, I found out that the theater room was actually 2 different rooms, which happened to be on different breakers. One breakers on the left side and one on the right of the pannel. I beleive this means they are on different phases, correct? Therefore, the RF-Lincs conntected the two phases together and I was able to control the light across the room.
After thinking about it, most of the switches are 3 way, and all come back to a single box. So I may or may not need the RF-Lincs.
Now, I can use Insteon Keypads and Icons switches for the lights, but how to get a signal to my Ocleot to send Ir.........
I also have to call Circuit City because when someone was setting up our DVD player, they plugged the RCA Audio Out of the player to the Coaxial Digitial In on the Receiver, and now the receiver won't turn on. Good thing we bought the warranty
