OK all the references to the RTFM button were mildly amusing...
That unit claims to have an intrusion sensor - an optical sensor that will be activated when the intercom is removed from the case.
So - if it were me, after about 30 seconds of thought, what I would do is wire both the relay and the intrusion sensor into input zones on the Elk, and absolutely don't have any direct ability to control the door via the onboard relay. Then you could set the intrusion sensor for 24-hour tamper and have instant alarm/notification if anyone pulls it off the wall.
Along with that, you could set some rules such that, if the intrusion sensor is activated, it either disables the door via an output, or by bypassing the intercom zone; rules for the intercom zone could be set to not fire if the output flag is set from a tamper, or if the alarm is in any state, etc.
You could probably do something with 4-state wiring and all that, but that wouldn't set a persistent state should someone open the box, attach some leads, then close it (turning off the intrusion detection) then making the contact. Of course you'd have the instant alarm from tamper, but I'd like aa more active disabling of the intercom contact.