If you are allowed to, I would look at something like an ADI Ocelot. It can learn IR codes, and you can trigger them via the serial interface of the Ocelot. This will only work if the remote is IR, but the manual states you have to point the remote at the unit when controlling it, so chances are it is IR based, and not RF. If that doesn't work, you could always hack the remote and control the important buttons with a relay.