Dan, kudos on remaining level-headed and calling for civility and open-mindedness. (Ken, Digger please don't be hasty.)
They are interested in interacting with the community, but they are upset with the tone/content of some of the posts in this thread...
This statement is baffling, for at least two reasons. First, it is well-known that dissatisfied customers can be poison. From a business standpoint you just have to address it and nip it in the bud whenever and wherever you can. Knowing that critical discussion is taking place ought to be a call to action to understand and address the issues under discussion. The attitudes expressed here are understandable to a certain degree given the silence and the distance of SH. This is an *opportunity* and nothing less. What kind of business thinking puts "being upset" ahead of "getting engaged?" How many businesses have the luxury of overlooking or avoiding market discontentment for very long?
Second, in my business (corporate-type) we would *kill* for the kind of market intelligence that this thead holds. CT represents the best and brightest customers, the kind of customers with whom a constructive relationship will almost naturally drive to market success. This is the very essence of the "Web 2.0" idea. There should be *no question* of the value of engaging this community in dialog, and *no hesitation* in doing so. Even the negative dialog can be beneficial. Maybe especially the negative. But you have to participate to get the benefit.