While hardwired is certainly not for every diy, the rest is a huge misconception. The hard wired anything is a lot cheaper than wireless, including the lighting. This may change in the future, but today you will get a lot more for a wired buck than for the wireless one, and the wired stuff is more reliable and requires less maintenance. By the same logic you could argue not to use any modern system in your house, like zoned radiant or geothermal or solar power, if you are concerned about scaring off the future buyers. The hardwired lighting is nothing more than a straight wire from a fixture to the central location, and the cost per load with 2 separate switches is the same or less than the similar quality wireless, assuming you have 50+ loads. For a smaller system it will be cheaper to go with other options, but you'll never have the same level of reliability and flexibility as with the hard-wired system.
Also, if you want automated window shades, consider running 16/2 + (22/4 or cat5) to every window. I prefer 22/4 to cat5 just because its a smaller wire and is easier to hide when installing a shade. For automated grapes you'll need a HV outlet and a cat5 for control, they can be installed at the normal height right below the window as you can hide the wires behind the drape.