She's probably following the mantra, "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em". 
Pseudo back on topic since it really isn't my topic but I'll share anyway. I believe I'm 95% decided that I will go with Lutron's RadioRA 2 (RadioRA2) solution for lighting (maybe sensors and thermostats later). We're remodeling the kitchen so I will need a solution soon and that should give me some time to jump through the hoops to get access to the RadioRA 2 software. There really isn't much information out there about RadioRA 2 but almost everything I read in terms of functionality was very complimentary and I didn't read anything negative about the system itself. The main negative was the dealer oriented nature of Lutron's distribution, which puts limitations on software distribution.
Here is what I like about RadioRA 2 and why I chose it.
* Two-way protocol tracks status to make sure lights turn on (Zwave and UPB don't have this two-way feedback loop). This directly reflects to reliability and should make RadioRA 2 much more reliable than other technologies with no feedback. I would say RadioRA 2 has the potential to be more reliable than any lighting control system except hard wired.
* Hybrid dimmer that will control local load AND you can pick which keypad button controls local load. Others I've seen use top button only for local load. Choosing the button allows for consistent keypad button order where a room has more than 1 keypad.
* Lutron seems to be actively adding devices (functionality?) such as the soon to be released fan controller. Other technologies are not active except for Zwave (maybe Zigbee but not much in lighting yet).
* One company to contact for support if lighting isn't working.
* Switches are nice and similarly priced to many other technologies with only a slight premium. Can match switches perfectly with regular (non-HA) switches. More options for switches and other devices compared to many technologies.
* Lutron has a reputation for making quality products and the original RadioRA has been in production and supported for over 15 years. RadioRA 2 addresses some shortcomings of RadioRA 1 so I would expect it to be around and supported for just as long and if so, that will make me very happy. If I look at a technology and see that it really isn't being supported then I will likely pass, which is why UPB was crossed off my list.
What I don't like abut RadioRA 2.
* Lutron pushes a dealer model so you have to jump through hoops to get access to their software (lookup BLAST training). Note that this is Level 1 and will get you access to their software with the ability to integrate up to 100 RadioRA 2 devices. If you want to go up to the maximum of 200 devices, you will need to be Level 2 certified, which requires a 2-day training course onsite with Lutron. Needless to say, I plan to stay under 100 RadioRA 2 devices.
* HA software (Homeseer, CQC, Elve) and most HA controllers don't have drivers to control RadioRA 2 directly. HAI has built-in control, just need to hook a serial cable between HAI and the RadioRA 2 Main Repeater. Elk has an add-on module that will interface with RadioRA 2 but definitely adds some expense.
Please let me know if any of my statements are inaccurate so I can correct them. Thanks.
David

Pseudo back on topic since it really isn't my topic but I'll share anyway. I believe I'm 95% decided that I will go with Lutron's RadioRA 2 (RadioRA2) solution for lighting (maybe sensors and thermostats later). We're remodeling the kitchen so I will need a solution soon and that should give me some time to jump through the hoops to get access to the RadioRA 2 software. There really isn't much information out there about RadioRA 2 but almost everything I read in terms of functionality was very complimentary and I didn't read anything negative about the system itself. The main negative was the dealer oriented nature of Lutron's distribution, which puts limitations on software distribution.
Here is what I like about RadioRA 2 and why I chose it.
* Two-way protocol tracks status to make sure lights turn on (Zwave and UPB don't have this two-way feedback loop). This directly reflects to reliability and should make RadioRA 2 much more reliable than other technologies with no feedback. I would say RadioRA 2 has the potential to be more reliable than any lighting control system except hard wired.
* Hybrid dimmer that will control local load AND you can pick which keypad button controls local load. Others I've seen use top button only for local load. Choosing the button allows for consistent keypad button order where a room has more than 1 keypad.
* Lutron seems to be actively adding devices (functionality?) such as the soon to be released fan controller. Other technologies are not active except for Zwave (maybe Zigbee but not much in lighting yet).
* One company to contact for support if lighting isn't working.
* Switches are nice and similarly priced to many other technologies with only a slight premium. Can match switches perfectly with regular (non-HA) switches. More options for switches and other devices compared to many technologies.
* Lutron has a reputation for making quality products and the original RadioRA has been in production and supported for over 15 years. RadioRA 2 addresses some shortcomings of RadioRA 1 so I would expect it to be around and supported for just as long and if so, that will make me very happy. If I look at a technology and see that it really isn't being supported then I will likely pass, which is why UPB was crossed off my list.
What I don't like abut RadioRA 2.
* Lutron pushes a dealer model so you have to jump through hoops to get access to their software (lookup BLAST training). Note that this is Level 1 and will get you access to their software with the ability to integrate up to 100 RadioRA 2 devices. If you want to go up to the maximum of 200 devices, you will need to be Level 2 certified, which requires a 2-day training course onsite with Lutron. Needless to say, I plan to stay under 100 RadioRA 2 devices.
* HA software (Homeseer, CQC, Elve) and most HA controllers don't have drivers to control RadioRA 2 directly. HAI has built-in control, just need to hook a serial cable between HAI and the RadioRA 2 Main Repeater. Elk has an add-on module that will interface with RadioRA 2 but definitely adds some expense.
Please let me know if any of my statements are inaccurate so I can correct them. Thanks.
David