Thanks for all the good info everyone.
Just for the sake of learning, I did some more testing and I wanted to share what I found.
I have a typical split phase house, with a passive UPB coupler.
I disconnected the coupler.
Now the results are really interesting.
If I connect the PIM to phase A, I can hit the devices on phase A, but almost nothing on phase B.
If I connect the PIM to phase B, I can hit all the devices on both phases reasonably well.
This is with the UPS online.
If I turn the coupler back on, everything goes back to zero.
Leave the coupler on, and disconnect the UPS, and I get full signal to both phases again.
Its like the coupler is using the UPS to null the UPB pulses.
Again, this never happened until this week. We had 100% perfect operation for 2 years.
So right now, I have moved the PIM to phase B, cut off the coupler, and ALL devices (except the 2 that fried) are working reasonably well.