My fan lighting is similar to Pete's. I have 2-4 cans in each bedroom, with two lamps on the bedstands. One click on the wall switch turns the cans on 50% and the lamps on 100%. Double click turns all on 100%. Double click is used for cleaning the room or for finding my lost glasses. :unsure:
We decided to forego the ceiling fan light fixtures because the wife could not find any that she really liked. And frankly, I am kind of a diva when it comes to glare from light fixtures. In most ceiling fan fixtures, you can see the filament directly. Your eye compensates by shrinking the pupil. So, instead of having more light, you actually have less apparent light. There are ways to hide the filament, but then the wife did not like the fixtures.
This whole post is a little off subject, but you might consider avoiding the fan light entirely by using remotely controlled bed-side lamps, and/or by popping some cans into the ceiling. This would make your ceiling fan control less complex.