hahah. you'd have to be around the forum for a while to fully get this one ...
no matter what solution you go with, YOU are going to have to program your system. I use CQC and it is quite simple in that you add your drivers and then configure your actions with an 'action editor'. CQC has a trial version and a very active forum, so I would suggest taking advantage of both before you write it off completely.
FYI, hooking up your home theater to a full automation system will likely take (by itself, other things not included) 50 hours of time. The sheer breadth of capability is staggering in what you can do to automate a space like that. Depending on equipment, of course.
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edit: wait, in the other thread you were asking about RadioRA 2 and taking their course. if you want plug-and-play, you're definitely in the wrong ballpark with RA 2.