I realize the recommendation to do cat-5 to in-wall stereo control and swing the speaker wire nearby. The problem is that there are always (at least in my house) HV wires nearby - so you are forced to break the "rules" regarding HV and LV wires. The house is fairly big so it also adds to the length of speaker wire - sometimes it really adds a lot of length.
I have pretty much ruled out A-bus and all the options I am looking at are just cat-5 to the controls.
So the HV is finishing up tomorrow so I need some advice ... quickly.
You still have to get speaker wire back to the equipment room, unless you're using strictly Abus and you said you ruled that out. Since you have to get speaker wire back to the equipment room and to speaker locations it doesn't take that much more to swing it through a wall plate in each room. Your best bet and most flexible to cover most audio systems and have a chance to upgrade at a later date is cat5+ and 16/4 speaker wire to the wall plate in each room and 16/2 to each speaker location in that room or 16.4 if you're going to use dual voice coils instead of stereo.
As far as keeping HS and LV apart, while the rules were written with optimum conditions, and we all know that never happens. Just keep them apart as much as possible. What you don't want to do is run them together for long runs.
Believe it or not - it almost doubles the length of speaker wire to put in at the control - because of places I can't go through with the wire (even going back to equipment room). If I know I am doing russound CAA66 ... for example ... why put the speaker wire at the control? I realize I am just looking for someone to agree with me to save me some wire and time, but I just don't see the point it if you are not going to use it. Who actually needs speaker wire at the control other than A-bus or just simple volume controls.
I think nightwalker misunderstood (I did as well) your original statement. When I first read it, I thought you were arguing the just run the speaker wire back to the volume/keypad and not back to the control room. In fact, you are asking if it is OK to simply run the wire directly from the speaker locations to the control room and bypass the loop of wire behind the keypad.
If you have made your decision as to which whole house system you are going to use, then I think the decision to skip the extra wire loop is fine. Obviously it will limit your choices in the future, but most systems today use cat5e to the keypad and speaker wire directly to the unit. So you will still have a lot of choices available.