The way I lay out zones and what type they should be is I ask the customer one question. Does the room have a sweet spot that the people using that room will be in. if the answer is no then it gets DVC one or more. If the answer is yes it gets stereo, complete with sub woofer in the appropriate places, if it's also a home theater room then of course it gets a lot more than just stereo.
The amount of speakers going into any one room has to do with how it's used and where people are placed. For example my favorite way to do a dining room is to use a DVC speaker in each corner. Depending on shape it could be more but my thoughts on it are a dining room generally isn't one that's for music other than background to set a mood. So low volume that can be heard by all without over powering the one sitting under the one speaker.
I see your kitchen, breakfast room, family room as one zone with two sub zones so you can control volume independently in the other areas, all using DVC speakers.