Actually, it's just the change from open to closed that triggers the door to toggle its current position, so the contact/relay only has to be closed for less than a second (If the door is closed, closing the circuit opens it and vice versa). So timing is not neccessary.Think about it, when you send a command from the wireless opener in your car, you're only sending it for a fraction of a second. So my "failsafe" opens the relay whenever it sees it as closed.
When I set it up, I assumed there wasn't enough current going through it to be concerned with, so I didn't test it. The limit of my testing was using a piece of wire to simulate the closing of the circuit by the SECU16 relay, to ensure I was using the correct pait of contacts/screws on the garage door controller. It can't hurt to use one of BSR's relay, just to be safe, though. (I've done the same for my Ocelot/SECU16 watchdog for my server, the SECU16's relays are wired directly to the PC's power and reset buttons without realys... I'mnot experieinceing any problems there either)
Prior to setting-up the garage door, my wife and I used to leave the garage door open once in a while when we shouldn't (at night or when we're not home). Now, HS alerts us when the door is open for >5 minutes after sunset or >10 minutes when the house is vacant for >10 minutes. The first is by voice command, the second is by email to my work and personal addresses + my cell. I can then, when away from home, close the door via the web interface, RDP, or email. I even have an email/text message "template" saved in my cell phone that I can send to HS to have it close the door.